I am not naive in thinking that you or I are immune to feeling anger, hate or bitterness- which often comes from hurt, fear, sadness, weariness, and so on. We do in fact transmit it in different ways around us, consciously and subconsciously. I am guilty of that more often than I would like. We are all responsible for confronting, and for dealing with, our “Shadow Self.”

I do believe what Fr. Richard Rohr says so often:
“If we do not transform our pain, we will most assuredly transmit it.” 

Peace.